I agree with this and in most conversations it usually ends up being about the fact that Sam doesn't love Dean in the same way Dean loves him and it in some way winds up being about control, obedience, and guilt instead of about true love for the individual. Sam and Dean are both messed up and they both have a hard time showing each other that they love each other as men and it's generally very messy. But the truth is both Dean and Sam fall short on what the other wants them to be and in that measure they both 'fail' so to speak, yet it seems that Sam is the only one charged. Which is quite odd to me because it's just another argument of hypocrisy.
i'm really hoping sera will got more into the sam storyline. eric was more into dean i think.
I don't think it even matters at this point the status quo has already been established and Dean in the inside character we see things through. I just hope that the years of syndication far off will be kinder to Sam. Lord knows he needs all the help he can get.
i'm trying to spread sam love (even alot of my spn buddies are DEAN FTW!
I make it a point not to favor one over the other. But Sam often times gets my sympathy and tugs on my protective side just because there is such strong animosity towards him. But really it's their relationship that I favor. There wouldn't be a Sam and Dean without either of them. I just wish both could love them if not equally then just love them both as much as they can. But yes please continue the Sam love. I would love to help.
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Date: 2011-07-10 04:01 am (UTC)I agree with this and in most conversations it usually ends up being about the fact that Sam doesn't love Dean in the same way Dean loves him and it in some way winds up being about control, obedience, and guilt instead of about true love for the individual. Sam and Dean are both messed up and they both have a hard time showing each other that they love each other as men and it's generally very messy. But the truth is both Dean and Sam fall short on what the other wants them to be and in that measure they both 'fail' so to speak, yet it seems that Sam is the only one charged. Which is quite odd to me because it's just another argument of hypocrisy.
i'm really hoping sera will got more into the sam storyline. eric was more into dean i think.
I don't think it even matters at this point the status quo has already been established and Dean in the inside character we see things through. I just hope that the years of syndication far off will be kinder to Sam. Lord knows he needs all the help he can get.
i'm trying to spread sam love (even alot of my spn buddies are DEAN FTW!
I make it a point not to favor one over the other. But Sam often times gets my sympathy and tugs on my protective side just because there is such strong animosity towards him. But really it's their relationship that I favor. There wouldn't be a Sam and Dean without either of them. I just wish both could love them if not equally then just love them both as much as they can. But yes please continue the Sam love. I would love to help.