I am not sure if you are still in fandom but I felt like commenting on this. But when I read about size kink I am like come on if I only read the bottom!Jensen fics and believe then I would've never known Jensen is 6'1. What I meant to say is both of them are tall and masculine but the bottom!Jensen fics treat him like a virgin flower/damsel in distress which I find unrealistic. and half of the bottom !Jensen fics explain in detail Jared's masculinity, height, strength, muscles while forgetting that Jensen is still there. Then I remember real life facts like Jensen can outrun everyone in the crew, likes doing his stunts and athletic and cannot continue reading. For me the personality of a person dictates there roles in life and Jensen never strikes me as submissive. In fact I have always felt that he likes to control/plan his life and that's is not compensating. We can agree that neither of us are experts in gay sex and dynamics but it irritates me when an author makes a character just because they are shorter disregarding all other characteristics. I don't think its required for Jared to be disempowered to become the bottom in their relationship as it is just natural for them to follow the dynamics based on their personalities. In the con videos i see Jensen taking care of Jared and not vice/versa. Okay now i am laughing because i am talking about a hypothetical relationship based on some of the glimpses we had in the lives of these people. It sounds absurd but i think my take on this shows more about my outlook on the world. So if you are still in fandom would like to hear from you.
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Date: 2013-08-10 09:56 am (UTC)For me the personality of a person dictates there roles in life and Jensen never strikes me as submissive. In fact I have always felt that he likes to control/plan his life and that's is not compensating. We can agree that neither of us are experts in gay sex and dynamics but it irritates me when an author makes a character just because they are shorter disregarding all other characteristics. I don't think its required for Jared to be disempowered to become the bottom in their relationship as it is just natural for them to follow the dynamics based on their personalities. In the con videos i see Jensen taking care of Jared and not vice/versa.
Okay now i am laughing because i am talking about a hypothetical relationship based on some of the glimpses we had in the lives of these people. It sounds absurd but i think my take on this shows more about my outlook on the world. So if you are still in fandom would like to hear from you.