might sound stupid, but what do you mean by charged?

the sera thing, i think you made my point my understandable than i did. that was what i was trying to say. lol!

and the favouring, i like you said, no sam, no dean. yes sam, yes dean etc...
like you, it is the relationship that i look into . their love is not the normal american fam, its messy, painful and deep. well, i think it runs deeper than "normal" fams. and they do love each other to their max capacity.
i just felt that everyone hails dean and misses sam who's equally important and THERE on the show!